Wedding- who pays for what?

There are no hard and fast rules as to who pays for what these days but it is a question that comes up regularly. Traditionally The Father of the Bride was responsible for paying for the wedding, now either sets of parents and/or the couple choose to share the expenses.

Below is the Traditional way to split the costs...

The Bride’s Family    Wedding Gown & Accessories

Bridesmaids Bouquets             

                        Grandmother Corsages             

Flowers for Decorations          

Altar Baskets/Arches                  

Canopy/Carpet               

Kneeling Bench/Candelabras            

Hired Items                      

Invitations                      

Wedding Programmes          

Napkins                     

Church Fee                       

Musicians                   

Reception Hall              

Caterers             

Photography                      

Videographer                     

Orchestra/Band/DJ                

Wedding Cake                

Wedding Favours                  

Rice Bags                   

Wedding Breakfast                

Bridal Brunch               

The Bride              Wedding gift for Groom           

Grooms Wedding Ring         

Bridesmaids Gift                 

Bridesmaid Luncheon

The Groom’s Family    Grooms Cake                      

Rehearsal Dinner                 

The Groom              Brides Wedding Ring              

Wedding Gift for Bride           

Groomsmen & Usher Gifts          

Brides Bouquet              

Mothers Corsages                 

Grooms Boutonnieres              

Groomsmen Boutonnieres           

Ushers Boutonnieres              

Marriages License                

Officiate Fee                    

Limousine Service           

Honeymoon Arrangements      

Best Man               Best Man Attire   

         

Best Man/Groomsmen    Bachelor Party

                  

Groomsmen              Groomsman Attire            

Matron of Honour       Matron of Honour Gown       

Maid of Honour         Maid of Honour Gown    

Bridesmaids            Bridesmaids Gowns           

Usher                   Ushers Attire               

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What are my responsibilities in the wedding?

I thought I would carry on from my last post a bit and talk about the traditional responsibilities of those involved in a wedding.The modern day wedding may differ somewhat but some traditions still stick...

Responsibilities of the Mother of the Groom

It is sometimes hard for Mothers of the Groom to understand what their responsibilities are and some mothers also want to be careful not to step on the mother of the Bride's toes.

• It is customary for the grooms Mother to call the Bride’s Mother to express her happiness of the upcoming nuptials or to informally invite her to dinner.
• The Grooms Mother must provide a guest list to the couple in a timely manner and to be appropriate in the number of guests she invites.
• The Bride’s Mother will be the first to choose her Gown for the Wedding, the Grooms Mother must then choose a Gown that complements the Mother of the Bride and the Bridesmaids without matching them.
• It is the responsibility of the Grooms Parents to host the Rehearsal Dinner no matter how informal or elaborate they choose.
• Traditionally the Mother of the Groom is escorted into the Church by a family member whether it be the Groom himself, Groomsmen or Usher. She will be seated on the right hand side, front pew with husband in tow.
• Candles may be lit at the Altar prior to the Bridal party entering; both the Mother of the Bride and the Mother of the Groom can be involved in this.
• The Grooms Mother also stands in the receiving line at the reception, greeting guests. She would be placed between the Bride and her Mother.

Responsibilities of the Mother of the Bride

The Brides Mothers main responsibilities are to see that the Brides wishes for her day are carried out. The Mother of the Bride is essentially the hostess for the event.

• In the event that the Mother of the Groom does not make contact then she may.
• She will help the Bride with choosing her dress.
• See to the invitations and Guest List.
• Choose her gown for the wedding and notify the grooms Mother of it's colours/style.
• Organize the receiving line at the Reception.
• Candles may be lit at the Altar prior to the Bridal party entering, both the Mother of the Bride and the Mother of the Groom can be involved in this.
• Co-ordinate with the Maid of Honour.

Responsibilities of the Maid of Honour

The Maid of Honour is generally a close friend or family member of the Bride and traditionally follows the Bride and helps her through the entire process. Her duties include...

• To attend all parties thrown by or for the Bride and Groom.
• Be sure to keep in contact with Bridesmaids to make sure they keep their appointments.
• Arrange for rose petals to be showered over the Bride and Groom as they leave the Ceremony.
• Help the Bride and Bridesmaids with getting ready on the day.
• Assist the bride with her train during the Ceremony.
• Hold the Brides Bouquet during the Ceremony and in the Receiving line.
• Help the Photographer identify the members of the bridal party for photos.
• Witness the Ceremony and sign the Marriage Certificate.
• Stand at the Grooms left with Bridesmaids to the right in the Receiving Line.
• With the Best Man, help the Bride and Groom depart.
• Take the Brides gown to the cleaners or her home whichever she wishes.

Responsibilities of the Best Man

The responsibility of the Best Man is to be the Grooms ‘wing man.’ To guide him through the wedding day, make sure he is in the right place at the right time.

• Collect the Officiator's fee from the Groom to pass on following the ceremony.
• Help the Groom dress on the day.
• Make sure travel arrangements are set.
• The Best Man rides to the church with the Groom.
• To organize the ushers on the day.
• Check the men’s boutonnieres– left lapel/stem down.
• Be first to the Reception to welcome the Bride and Groom.
• The Best Man makes the first toast/speech to the groom.
• The Best Man acts as the host bringing the guests together and making them feel welcome.
• He should dance with the Bride and both mothers.
• Return the Grooms Tuxedo or Suit to the appropriate place.
• To witness and sign the Marriage License.

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