Saturday 28 April 2012

3 Wedding Budget Steps Every Couple Has To Know


Before you do ANY wedding planning you must must must set your budget. Have a look at our 3 steps to setting your budget and learn why they are so important.

1. What can you spend?

Recent statistics show that the average spend of a New Zealand wedding is $30,000! Imagine all you could do with that money, a deposit for a house, a fabulous holiday, a great start to your retirement fund? So that is why the first thing I like to ask my brides is how much do you realistically want to spend on your wedding?

It’s all very well to want a huge extravagant wedding but is it viable for you and your future as a married couple? It is important to consider how you are going to pay for your wedding and what you want for your immediate future. Have you saved all the money for your wedding? Is your family contributing? Do you already own a house? Are you thinking of starting a family soon?


Don’t get me wrong I love the big extravagant wedding but every couple needs to ask themselves these questions before deciding what their wedding budget will be. Starting a marriage with debt or financial troubles will not help you as a couple. We’ve all heard of the “buying champagne on a beer budget” saying. Don’t let that be you.



2. Break it down

Breaking down a budget can seem like an impossible and daunting task for a bride. Wedding planners can do this so quickly because we know the industry. We know what the costs are and what is realistic so as a new bride you could easily break down your budget incorrectly and end up with a nasty surprise when you realise your cake will cost three times as much as you budgeted.

There is hope yet though, the internet is an excellent tool for wedding planning. There is just so much out there but be careful. You will find many budget breakdowns online but only take them as a guide because every supplier is different and every area is different.

You then need to contact a possible supplier and get a rough quote, some of your supplier websites such as venues may have price-lists so you can use those, for others such as caterers we would suggest to contact them directly as there are so many variations. Consider hiring a planner to help you do this if you don’t have enough time. Our cheapest wedding package includes a budget breakdown, click here for more information.

This step may take some time but will be well worth it.


3.  Expect it to change!

Your wedding will likely go over budget. As you go through the planning process you will see things that become ‘must haves,’ and you will come across things you don’t want to comprise on.

Vendors may try to upsell you, they may have a valid reason why so hear them out but always consider your budget first. Make sure you have the extra funds to cover these  unforeseeable's when first setting your budget.

Most couples find they go 10-15% over budget.


Remember that suppliers in the wedding industry are normally there for love of the job. By all means ask them how you can cut costs by swapping salads with your caterer or having your wedding on a different day to get a cheaper rate at your venue but expect to get what you pay for. Beware of unusually cheap vendors. We recommend researching and comparing costs to ensure you are not being overcharged but understand that some things will cost more than you expect, for example cakes are ridiculously expensive but rightly so, the quality ingredients and the hours it takes to create these masterpieces warrants the price.

Monday 23 April 2012

Top 5 Tips on Selecting your Guest List for your Wedding

Writing a guest list for your wedding is a difficult task at best but these top 5 tips will help you with this important process. Understand that this is one of the biggest headaches for couples so you are not alone. Many couples have regrets about either inviting too many and going over budget or not inviting all their loved ones to share in their special day so do think carefully.

1. Getting Started

As soon as you’ve begun your wedding plans start writing your guest list. We suggest writing down everyone you know, friends and family, co-workers, acquaintances. Look through your address book, your phone and your facebook. Ask your parents if they would like anyone to come, old family friend’s maybe. This list will chop and change throughout your planning process. You will find that over the months you will suddenly remember someone and add them on, you many even make new friends. Once you have a basic list go through and put a tick next to all the guests you would like to invite. You can also make columns with headers such as ‘ceremony only,’ ‘full wedding,’ ‘bridal party.’ Have a count and review your budget, does it allow for this many guests? Would I like to increase my budget or cull my list? Are these people likely to be in my life in 5 years time? Have I spoken to these people in the last 6 months?
  

2. Venue

Of course your venue will tell you the maximum numbers for their capacity but there are a few other questions you need to ask. Most venues have a minimum requirement also; make sure you know what it is. If their requirement is minimum 80 and you’ve invited only 75 guests, you could be paying for the extra 5 seats. You also want to ask how many guests does the venue sit comfortably and how many guests per table. The venue may say it can seat 200 but that may mean they can squash in 200 and be able to sit 180 comfortably. There’s nothing worse than being a guest sitting shoulder to shoulder with someone you may not know very well and not having enough room to walk between the tables.

  

3. Save the date

As soon as you have finalised your list in terms of who you are inviting send you’re ‘save the dates.’ Save the date cards have become so popular and these days with the busy lives we all lead they are invaluable to guests. Most couples are inviting guests from other cities and from overseas and for these people ‘save the dates’ are very helpful in both budgeting for their trip and booking flights and accommodation and also arranging time off work.  You can set up a wedding website, a facebook page, you can even send emails or cards by the old fashioned snail mail to do this.

 

4. Declines

Of course you will get some guests that can’t make it, in most situations that will be 15-30% of invitees but you can’t count on that, they may all come! As a general rule the smaller amount of guests you invite the higher percentage will actually attend, this is because it will be family and close friends. The same goes the opposite way, if you have invited 350 guests, many of them may be co-workers or acquaintances that will decline your invitation and that percentage could be higher. If you are having a destination wedding this could also affect your guest list but never count on your invitees declining.

 

5. Children

A controversial question many couples struggle with is ‘should we invite children?’ The best way to deal with this is to either say yes or no and make no exceptions, you may want to have ‘sorry no children’ printed on the invitations so it’s clear and your guests understand they are not singled out. Usually you will be charged half price for kids with your caterer but it is still an added cost. Children can make the day magical, their laughter and cute ways make guests enjoy the day but they can also cry and become tired. You need to ask yourself, ‘what kind of day do I want?’

 

Don’t forget

You may need to take into account feeding your celebrant, your photographer, the band or anyone else that may be at your wedding providing services for an extended period of time and through dinner. Consider if you want these people eating out back in the kitchen (which may be cheaper with your caterer) or if you want them seated with your guests.


Good luck!!


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Saturday 21 April 2012

Wedding- who pays for what?

There are no hard and fast rules as to who pays for what these days but it is a question that comes up regularly. Traditionally The Father of the Bride was responsible for paying for the wedding, now either sets of parents and/or the couple choose to share the expenses.

Below is the Traditional way to split the costs...

The Bride’s Family    Wedding Gown & Accessories
Bridesmaids Bouquets             
                        Grandmother Corsages             
Flowers for Decorations          
Altar Baskets/Arches                  
Canopy/Carpet               
Kneeling Bench/Candelabras            
Hired Items                      
Invitations                      
Wedding Programmes          
Napkins                     
Church Fee                       
Musicians                   
Reception Hall              
Caterers             
Photography                      
Videographer                     
Orchestra/Band/DJ                
Wedding Cake                
Wedding Favours                  
Rice Bags                   
Wedding Breakfast                
Bridal Brunch               


The Bride              Wedding gift for Groom           
Grooms Wedding Ring         
Bridesmaids Gift                 
Bridesmaid Luncheon

The Groom’s Family    Grooms Cake                      
Rehearsal Dinner                 

The Groom              Brides Wedding Ring              
Wedding Gift for Bride           
Groomsmen & Usher Gifts          
Brides Bouquet              
Mothers Corsages                 
Grooms Boutonnieres              
Groomsmen Boutonnieres           
Ushers Boutonnieres              
Marriages License                
Officiate Fee                    
Limousine Service           
Honeymoon Arrangements      

Best Man               Best Man Attire   
         
Best Man/Groomsmen    Bachelor Party
                  
Groomsmen              Groomsman Attire            

Matron of Honour       Matron of Honour Gown       

Maid of Honour         Maid of Honour Gown    

Bridesmaids            Bridesmaids Gowns           

Usher                   Ushers Attire               


We hope you found this blog informative, please visit our website and happy planning!


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Thursday 5 April 2012

Wedding favor idea- home-made affordable paper hearts

Do you remember making folded paper hearts in high school to pass notes around to your friends? 


I know a lot of brides like little extras, especially if they are cheap to do and personal. I thought the other day about these paper hearts I used to know how to fold and went Googling, I found many tutorials on how to fold these cute paper hearts and got to work. Check out this great blog I found on how to fold paper hearts.


How to use these paper hearts in your wedding or event

  • Choose what colour and style you want. What is your theme? Would you like to do a coloured heart to match your centrepiece flowers? or Will you use a patterned paper, maybe one with a vintage print or other pattern that fits with your theme. I used newspaper which I glued to the back of my paper.
  • Print a quote, saying or poem on the reverse side of the paper. Maybe you would like to leave a note to say 'thanks for joining us on our special day' or a copy of a reading you had in your ceremony. Maybe a joke or funny fact about the two of you. If each guest at the table has a different quote etc they can share amoungst themselves and it can be a great icebreaker.  I printed 4 to an A4 page. This makes a nice small heart but you can do any size you like.  
  • Place on each guests plate, against their glass or in their favor bag/box depending on when you would like them to open them, perhaps not till they get home and open their favor bag.
  • It's also a good tip to have a few 'moles' in the crowd. A select few that know your plan and can encourage people to open up their hearts by opening theirs. Your guests may think they are just decorative and not open them at all!
I hope you enjoyed this idea. Happy planning!